Monday, August 31, 2009 »
In any relationship in the early romantic stages
there's a danger that you're going to think
this is the best relationship you've ever had
and
you'll want to commit too early.Even though you may feel like this is the best relationship ever,
you're partner is perfect
and you'll never, ever feel any different,
just force yourself to take your time.If your love for each other is real
they will understand if you need to slow down a little.
11:27 PM
apparently experiencing and healing from a
broken relationship makes us more compassionate about
another person's pain.
emotional pain doesnt kill(:
its what you do to avoid that pain, that might kill YOU!
deal with the pain of the old relationship before entering a new one.
which is what i did, 4 years ago.
i took all e time i needed(:
however it did have its side effects.
i defnitely do not see certain things e same way as i used to
and its pretty redundant to go in depth and
talk abt it.hahaha.
and so, at first you date.
everything seems so pretty and lovely
and then you enter another phase of dating,
serious dating?
slowly he starts entering your life,
and then when you say yes,
THATS E END.
he enters your life and starts being e captain in your life.
which definitely does not apply to everyone.
and i am not generalising or being negative abt it,
there will defnitely be others who wont do that.
HOWEVER, what i am coming at is,
all of that, is normal.
and in fact, the person defnitely should have a say in your life
and there should eb compromise, communication etc.
as much as i may have made it seem like he'd rule your entire life,
when i said captain, its not that extreme.
and i am lazy to continue this point.
you should get it.
AND if you are not ready to do all of it,
DONT.
i have been thinking lately more than usual
about the choices i have made in life
and should be making
and will be making.
e last time i re-evaluated my life was after the whole stupid, dramatic 2006 i had.
and i guess its time for a re-evaluation of the re-evaluation.
i do know how i am talking quite abit of nonsense that
will never make sense to anyone else but myself
hahhahaa(:
someone once said
"if you truly love someone, set them free.
if they come back to you, they are for keeps
but if they dont, it means it was never yours to begin with"i've heard this saying a couple of time in my life.
first from my mum, then OJW and etc.
and i truly believe in it.be it when applying to people,
or things.
11:02 PM
Sunday, August 30, 2009 »
I didn't want to say "No" because I didn't want people to think I'm not nice.
And that, to me, has been the greatest lesson of my life:
to
recognize that I am solely responsible for it,
and
not trying to please other people,
and not living my life to please other people,
but
doing what my heart says all the time.
Oprah Winfrey -
10:41 PM
Friday, August 28, 2009 »
In order to soar like an eagle, you must first leave the nest.
If you believe you cannot fly, then you will never try.
Know that for every problem there are many solutions.Society spends much time fixated on the "right" career and the "perfect" car.
Shallow fixations with the "model" look have created havoc, especially among young women.
Look within and discover your innate beauty.
Find what warms your heart and ignites your passion.
Develop friendships with those who allow you to be yourself.
3:11 AM
Thursday, August 20, 2009 »
shazawani begum.
i love you.
HAHAHAHA(:
7:30 AM
Walk the fine line between
blatant self-interest and complete altruism.
7:19 AM
Tuesday, August 11, 2009 »
someone told me that my blog entries have become pretty depressing and sad.
and oh god.
its quite true):
hahaha.
life is pretty and simple(:
so dont complicate it.
10:21 AM
